Is there a difference in the custom with regard to the qualities of femininity between Novus Ordo Catholics and Traditional Catholics?

​If the customs are indeed different; women should recognize which custom best represents Our Lady.

It is God who qualifies femininity, not women, not men, not any changes of time.

The Nature Dignity and Mission of Woman.

"Fr. Stehlin, a priest with over 25 years of pastoral experience, takes up his pen to examine, explain, and defend real femininity. This book, the fruit of a series of talks given to young ladies at a Catholic boarding school, will help all Catholics, but especially the young, rediscover the immense dignity of being a woman, as lived out in accord with the plan of God's creation."

The book can be purchased here: https://angeluspress.org/products/dignity-woman

The audiobook can be heard below: